Tidy Home Office Ideas Questions Answered!
- Where can I find used office furniture?
I am looking for just 1 item. A wooden stationary cupboard to tidy up my little home study.I need somewhere in Gloucestershire really. Any ideas?
- Ok. Here comes some bachelor humility... What can I do to just keep my house more neat? Any ideas?
I'm a bachelor and I work long hours in my office. I am NEVER home, but when I walk through the door, I am just embarassed at how non-tidy it is. I absolutely HATE straightening up the place, but it's just not me to have things this disorganized. I'll devote a day to it and it'll look great, but then it'll be maybe 2 weeks before I spend more than an hour of non-sleeping time there and it just turns out messy again. and piles up. I know this sounds scrubby, but I'm really asking for suggestions. Are there ANY tips that you can offer that will just help me stay on top of this with so little time to do it? A little bit at a time? Housekeeper (would prefer not to.) Girls, how do you always seem to find time to clean. Being a bachelor, I guess I don't have any particular motivation to please myself by keeping it clean, much less a family. Friends/girls are never over, either. Embarrassedly asking for help.... PS. I love you girls! Thanks for offering some advice instead of "straighten up, slob!" People that know me know that I'm not a slob in the slightest, but I'm loving the support without the judgements!
- Home Advice Needed - Please help?
Your Open Question Show me another » How can I make? How can I make my home more homely? I live in a 2 bedroom flat, with open plan lounge, kitchen and dining room. I do not really like a cluttered environment, so I only have a few items in each room. The problem is - its not very homely. How can I warm my house up to be more of a sancutuary and resting place than something that looks like a display in a shop? Please please give me some ideas. My kitchen tends to clog up with dishes as well, what routine do you suggest to keep the kitchen tidy? How do I clean my office up? I have so many items (pens, cd's, papers, bags, boxes...standing around. I have an empty house, a cluttered office (that I HATE) and a kitchen that - from time to time just does not come clean. MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION THOUGH: How do I make my home MORE homely? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! I do have scatter cusions, and colour co-ordinated curtains. Think of a shop show room - that's what it looks like - so it is NICE, but it is not Comfortable.... I do have scatter cusions, and colour co-ordinated curtains. Think of a shop show room - that's what it looks like - so it is NICE, but it is not Comfortable....
- what can i do about my husband we are self employed and work from home so it is difficult to divide work?
and family time he already works long hours sometimes up until 10 pm. I am meant to do the businesses books but cant get out into the office as it is such a tip out there . I did have everything organised into files etc and my desk was nice and tidy and clear .Hubby ended up piling all his drawings on my desk and stuff i have no idea where anything is. And i have 6 months worth of work to catch up on as well as start the present years books now iam upset as i mentioned tidying the desks and he says he will get round to it i really want to get up to date but feel like i cant till he gets his act together then he turned round to me and said it will not take me long if i stop going out during the week with my mother i only see her to do the grocery shop and one other morning .He reckons it wont take long at all but i have to run a house and see to kids as well .i am now feeling like i want to cry over this whole situation but i wont let him see. Plus i cant move any of his work stuff as he Will go mad. are you sure you have read the question ? really helpful answer NOT the problem is he wont tidy his stuff so iam left in a very difficult situation in the next few months when we have to get the books in i told he do the books himself or get someone in and that didnt go down very well at all feeling a bit happier now i will just keep on at him to tidy up he will give in eventually and if he doesnt i wont let him hassle me to get the books done
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How can I make my home more homely? I live in a 2 bedroom flat, with open plan lounge, kitchen and dining room. I do not really like a cluttered environment, so I only have a few items in each room. The problem is - its not very homely. How can I warm my house up to be more of a sancutuary and resting place than something that looks like a display in a shop? Please please give me some ideas. My kitchen tends to clog up with dishes as well, what routine do you suggest to keep the kitchen tidy? How do I clean my office up? I have so many items (pens, cd's, papers, bags, boxes...standing around. I have an empty house, a cluttered office (that I HATE) and a kitchen that - from time to time just does not come clean. MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION THOUGH: How do I make my home MORE homely? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!
- Can you fix my flawed story?
Thank you for clicking my question :-) Below is an outline for my story. It's shorter than it looks! I will NOT tell you the flaws in the story. If you like the story as it is, then maybe there's no need to change it. If you find flaws, then let me know ways to fix them. This story will ultimately become a screenplay, and I'd like to make it a movie one day. My love for noir films seeps into my writing, as you might notice. The Best Answer will be given to the person who best understands my story. Enjoy :-) * * * * * * The beginning should have a strong focus on desperation to save the company. I want to develop the characters Johnson, Frelps, and Johnson's wife. > Smith Toy and WIlliam Town Toys are rival toy companies. >Johnson has just been promoted to high position in Smith Toys. He is in his office, which is very open and tidy. Close up on pictures of Johnson with his wife. Johnson dreams of a vacation where he and his wife go sailing. >The employee 'Dave' comes in with a baby toy prototype. The baby a little over the top, which is demonstrated when it throws up a huge quantity of green fluid. Dave is very confident about his creation. >Dave leaves the toy on Johnson's desk, since he wants his boss to ponder on the idea. >Johnson views an e-mail containing the new toy commercial from William Town Toys. The toy is based on a humanoid robot. >A meeting is underway, and Johnson goes to meeting and views many bizarre toy prototypes, many of which are over the top like the baby one. >Smith Toys profits are relatively fair, while William Town Toys are doing exceptionally well. >At the meeting, they decide to produce Toy X. >After the meeting, Johnson learns from Frelps (another high up employee as well as his close friend) that the new toy from William Town Toys was clearly stolen from them. Frelps shows Johnson a prototype humanoid machine which could be programmed for nearly anything. The name of the robot is RoboSlave, and it's based on military technology. The William Town version is clearly a copy, but it does not violate copyrights. >Back in his office, Johnson looks across to the William Town Toys building. He witnesses the CEO of that company kill himself with a revolver. Three men come in, and drag the body away. >Johnson goes home to his loving wife, who prepares him a large dinner and talks with him. Johnson tells his wife of his stressful day, and tells her that when he gets the company up to par, he'll take her on a grand sailing adventure. >Dave goes home to to his girlfriend, with whom he has a poor relationship. Dave assures his girlfriend that the future of his job looks very promising. >The next day, Johnson goes to his office. On the way through the building, employees stop him to let him know about their new toy designs, all of which are ridiculous. >While in his office, Johnson is trying to sketch out pictures of something that may surpass William Town Toys. He is not satisfied with any of his ideas, except one of the toys which is a sailboat playset. >Johnson takes lunch with Frelps, and Frelps tells Johnson that his wife has cheated on him recently. (Character development scene) When it comes on topic, Johnson finds that he can't remember anything about his own wedding day. >Back in the office, Johnson finds that his design for the boat is no longer legible since the baby toy threw up on it. Frustrated, Johnson throws the baby onto the floor. >Johnson goes home to his wife. He looks through a magazine and finds a large sailboat that he'd like to buy. He cuts out the picture and puts it onto his bulletin board, which is covered with hundreds of sailboat magazine cut-outs. >Johnson with his wife scene, they work together to re-create the sailboat design. (Romantic) >Johnson goes to work, only to find the baby toy back on his desk. Frustrated, he throws the baby in the trash. >Johnson talks to Frelps. William Town Toys has copied them again, only this time they have made Toy X (The toy that Smith Toys was about to produce) along with a commercial. Johnson is so frustrated that he throws a vase down to the floor, breaking it. >Johnson furiously rushes back to his office, and slams the door. He takes out his plans for the sailboat toy and looks at them. >Just then, he notices the baby toy is back on his desk. Still angry, Johnson picks up the toy and is about to throw it when... >The baby starts to speak. The baby's voice is deep and that of a man. The baby has a sense of humor, and tells Johnson that nobody will want the sailboat toy. Kids wants action, violence, or anything that can excite them. >The baby suggests a toy utilizing the humanoid RoboSlave, which is the most advanced technology available to the company. The toy the baby suggests is a series of monsters capable of fighting each other (Similar to the Pokemon craze). >Johnson has no reason to believe the baby, and throws him into the trash once more. >Johnson goes home. He smokes Yahoo! Answers cut off half my story. It's very disappointing, because I worked hard on the ending. Please judge what I have posted. If you want to read the rest, please e-mail 'sirevanalot@yahoo.com' and let me know :-) Question has been reposted here with the FULL story: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At_uyBnN2oW3O65PrahHbE_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091123191834AATqlFc
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please Help!!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for u. I have been thinking about this 4 many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where u would stay after you move here? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it 4 awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think u would be a good roommate, when u move to here. If u take this offer, u would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask 4 that as a flat rate each month. U would have ur own room, baby and I would share a room (the bigger of the 2, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure u could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything ur heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and u could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured u are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. U would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when baby is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if u take this offer. U will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. U do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope u have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help!! Thank-you!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please help! Thanks you!!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please help!! Thanks so much!!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help!! Thanks so much!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please help!! Thankyou so much!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail? Please help!! Thankyou so much!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for u. I have been thinking about this 4 many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where u would stay after you move here? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it 4 awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think u would be a good roommate, when u move to here. If u take this offer, u would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask 4 that as a flat rate each month. U would have ur own room, baby and I would share a room (the bigger of the 2, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure u could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything ur heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and u could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured u are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. U would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when baby is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if u take this offer. U will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. U do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope u have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
- If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's E-mail? Please help!! Thanks so much!?
Dearest Sexy, I have a proposition for you. I have been thinking about this for many many days now, so I am 100% sure this is something I'd personally like to do. Remember when we had that misunderstanding about where you would stay after you move to Winston-Salem? I originally stated that only a short-term stay was workable. Well, I thought about it for awhile after that, and decided that it might actually be a good idea to share a household. Let me give you a run-down of the idea I had in mind. I think you would be a good roommate, when you move to Winston. If you take this offer, you would be in for 1/3 of the expenses (since there would be 3 people here.) This comes out to about $350 a month which includes all current utilities. I would simply ask for that as a flat rate each month. You would have your own room, and Nessa and I would share a room (the bigger of the two, currently my office). Even though we are involved with each other in an intimate way, I still think looking at this like a practical roommate arrangement is best. Here are some reasons why I think this will be beneficial. From a compatibility standpoint we are both quiet people, have similar sleep patterns, value clean and tidy housekeeping, are frugal, don't watch TV much, and have mutual respect. This arrangement stands to help us both financially; I could pay off debt and afford online college. I'm sure you could do something special with the extra cash, whether it be saving up, investing, helping your mom, going back to school, or anything your heart desires. Domestic tasks would also be simpler if we break it into roles we both enjoy. I could make dinner most nights, and you could take care of most of the yard work. Food expenses could be casually shared & we could benefit from buying in bulk. Cleaning house is something we already do in our current homes; I feel assured you are the type to clean up after yourself even with a woman in the house. It's important to note that due to work, travel, and school, we would still not have a lot of time to see each other even if we lived together. I would be busy once I got home, and we might be seeing each other only at dinner. You would have time to yourself probably every week since you get mostly weekdays off. I would still visit my family every other weekend. But, we could go on dates/"sleepovers" just as usual when Nessa is away (Wednesdays and every other weekend). Except, there would be no 2 1/2 hour drive to worry about. The things that might pose problems are as follows. We could not probably have 3 cats here. Also, there may not be enough room for all your furnishings. These are two things we will have to work on if you take this offer. You will also have to decide if you are prepared to live in a home with a 7-year old. Some days are fun, but some days are annoying. You would not be expected to take on a parental role. However, because Nessa admires you she will probably seek your attention sometimes. She is talkative and asks lots of questions, and wants to be included in things. Every so often she might pitch a fit over something that seems irrational and it is a very unpleasurable thing to witness. You are a good role model, and this is also a benefit to me & Nessa. But, you have to consider whether this is a benefit to you. Think about whether being a male role model is a rewarding experience to your heart, or if it doesn't really do anything for you. Remember it is normal to get disgusted by children, especially when they are not your own. Just recognize whether you are willing/able to cope with such feelings from time to time. Anyways, I plan to get rid of some more junk if you decide to make this move. That way we won't be so crowded. I do think there is plenty of room for the three of us, as long as we stay reasonably organized and avoid excess. Neatness will be important. If you'd like to do this, let me know. You do not have to give an immediate answer; just think about it. Please read at least twice before making a decision. I hope you have a deliciously wonderful day! Yours always, Pumpkin
